Get ready to cook
As A Reluctant Cook I’d regularly get really stressed while cooking. That still happens sometimes, but a bit of prep goes a long way to making the whole process smoother.
First rewrite the recipe.
I find most recipes are written for people who know how to cook or enjoy cooking. They lump a whole lot of steps in together and even get things out of order. They also seem to assume that you’ll have all the ingredients measured out and prepared beforehand in a dozen little bowls.
That may be how things work on cooking shows, but in real life I reach for a packet and measure out the spice or whatever straight into what I’m cooking.
The first thing I do is to go through the recipe I’ve saved in Drafts app and break it down into tiny, single actions. I’ll often also set up a separate Preparation section for things like making stock (from boiling water and a cube), or chopping up veges.
For that recipe for Mexican-style Mince (from the first post in this series) my Preparation section has this: Make 1 cup beef stock, cook rice, drain can of beans
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I also expand abbreviations: when I’m cooking I can easily mistake 1 tbs for 1 tsp. I’ve made TextExpander abbreviations so I can easily go through and write tablespoon or teaspoon where it’s needed.
Then I work through the steps and add in amounts of things. A recipe may say something like:
In a large bowl combine the beef mince, onion, carrot, celery, garlic, paprika and chilli powder.
I rewrite that with quantities, so now it says:
In a large bowl combine 500 grams mince; 1 carrot, finely chopped; 1 stick celery, finely chopped; 2 cloves garlic, finely chopped; 1 teaspoon paprika; 1/2 teaspoon chilli powder (or more to taste).
Note: I don’t eat onion, so I remove it from my copy of the recipe.
OK, recipe rewritten, I’m now ready to cook, so I get out the pans and dishes I’ll need, spoons and measuring jugs and so on, plus the ingredients.
I also grab my iPad, call up my rewritten recipe, make sure the text is large, and put the iPad on a stand so it’s easy to read.
Note: Drafts has a Shopping Mode that I only recently learned about. It stops the iPad from going to sleep and also stops you from accidentally editing a recipe you’re simply trying to scroll.
It’s time to cook!

I wish websites wrote out recipes like you do! I waste a lot of time scrolling back and forth between quantities and instructions.

@Cheri I did at first too! Then I realized I could write them in on my copy. Thanks for the feedback. I wasn’t too sure anyone was actually reading…

It’s a great idea. I tend to re-use recipes so it’s definitely worth the time to tidy them up for future use.

@Cheri I also leave comments for myself about how it worked out, any changes I made, suggestions for next time.

That is a great tip! It seems sooooo obvious that me first reaction was “why haven’t I thought about this”. Thanks for sharing!

@jeroensangers Isn't that always the way! It took me a while before I thought to do that.

I also hate those recipes that spring bonus "you should have done this earlier!" steps on you (my least favourite is when they go "now add the cooked rice" 🤦🏻♀️). I definitely rewrite recipes for my own use too, mostly to explicitly write where's a good time to chop veggies or get the rice started for a dish I'm gonna serve with rice (that kind of thing anyway). I hadn't thought of embedding the quantities directly into the recipe – for me I feel like I need it in a separate list so I know what I need to get from the shop, but I can see the logic in embedding it, too!

@jayeless I have those quantities twice — both in the ingredients list and in the instructions. Thanks for the great example of the ‘you should have done this earlier’ step. 😂