When we went to Samoa I totally wanted to avoid any Roaming fees so turned off all kinds of stuff on my Phone. I regret it now, when somehow iMessages are only turning up on my Phone not my Mac, and a phone call I actually wanted just failed to connect with me. Grrr.
Now fiddling with Settings…

its not just you. i did this when i went to the UK from the US earlier this year. ive been back for two months, fiddled with all kinds of settings, and STILL miss texts, get messages on one device and not another, have to try multiple times for phone calls, etc.

@restlesslens Fiddling with settings and restarting both devices seems to be restoring the natural order… 😀