In 2016 we escaped New Zealand’s August with a week in Niue 🇳🇺 . This photo is in a cave at the north tip of the island. The blue is utterly clear water in a pool in the cave. Photo from about 10 metres up.

Blue water pool in a cave.

After his visit to the vet yesterday Ares the cat is doing better today. He was given hydration, antibiotics and pain relief. Must keep that trio in mind for when I’m his age. 😀 🐈

Heh, my favourite NativLang is back with this 10 minute video today: Gvprtskvni - how is this even a word, Georgian!?

Starting from one clustery word, we'll go on a journey looking for the "root" of this record-breaking consonant phenomenon known as Georgian.

Ares the elderly cat is now down to 4.52Kg. In July it was 4.6. He now has antibiotics and pain relief and has had a hydrating treatment too. His favourite food is the gravy part of pouches that have ‘meat’ in gravy.

My numerous attempts today to photograph Ares have all come to nothing much. These are the best two. He’s an old boy. Off to the vet today as he’s sneezing quite a bit. 🐈

Black cat curled up on a couch. Black cat looking at the camera.

I’m getting a new crown on a tooth. Last week the new crown didn’t fit. Today a new one arrived … and didn’t fit. Numb face again and a bit fed up. Consolation fries with tomato sauce and aoli. And difficulty eating them.

Fries with tomato sauce and aoli.

In August 2012 we escaped NZ’s worst time of year and were enjoying warm sun in Tonga. One highlight was a day trip on a tiny boat to watch humpback whales. We lunched on a minute white sand island with some of the clearest water anywhere.

White sand beach and whale watching boat.

Dorsal fin of a humpback whale beside the boat.

Part of a humpback whale above water beside the boat.

New socks day is always a good day. If I were mega-rich I’d have new socks every month.

Thorlo walking socks in an unopened packet.

The diggers working behind our house disappeared a couple of days ago so I investigated an odd noise. The farmer next door is spreading lime or fertiliser or something. The cows in the paddock just have to take their chances, it seems. Rainy day.

Truck spreading lime or fertiliser on the paddock next door.

I was unsure at first about the Australian TV Series, Pulse but it grew on me. 8 episodes.

the story of Frankie … Inspired by the man who saved her life, Frankie … becomes a doctor, working and learning in the … the cardio-thoracic and renal wards of a major teaching hospital.

One of the most-used helper apps on my Mac is PopClip:

PopClip appears when you select text with your mouse. Instantly copy and paste, and access actions like search, spelling, dictionary and more.

I use it constantly to change case, copy, paste and for many other actions.

PopClip provides a menubar by selected text with instant access to Copy, Paste, case change and many other user-configurable actions.

At sunset in a clear sky tonight I could see 3 maunga (mountains) on the horizon: Ruapehu, Taranaki, Tapuae-o-Uenuku. I always forget how many bits of the South Island you can see from here at dawn and dusk. I left my good camera at home on purpose, so these are iPhone shots.

Looking south along the beach, with Kāpiti Island. Looking north along the beach.

Last night was a bit chilly — it got down to about -1.3C here at sea level. There was a good frost, and the nearby Tararua peaks were snowy. By this afternoon though we were basking in sunshine from a clear blue sky and 14.2C.

Temperature of minus 1.3C. Frosty grass and yard. Snow on a mountain peak. Cows grazing on green pasture with snowy peak mountains in the background.

I’m really enjoying reading the book Because Internet: Understanding the New Rules of Language. Currently reading about emoji and their roles in informal text, partly replacing gesture, but with all kinds of depth and breadth. Fascinating stuff. 🤯

Because Internet by Gretchen Mcculloch book cover.

We had errands in Palmerston North today and took the dogs with us. At Animates we found a do-it-yourself dog wash, $10 for 10 minutes. Given that Oshi was pretty smelly, we tried it out. It’s easy to control and very easy to work with. Way easier than bathing them at home. 🐶

The wash controller options. Small dog being soaped up in the tub.Small dog being rinsed off in the tub.

I’m feeding a friend’s chooks for a few days. She has 3 ‘new’ girls — the black and white ones, and two old girls — the big white ones. 🐔

5 chooks inside a hen house. Two chooks on the floor of the hen house. Three black chooks feeding from a bowl on the ground outside.

Feeding a friend’s chooks for a couple of days. One (new) chook was on the wrong side of the fence, to everyone’s great consternation. I used the old throw-the-jersey-over-it trick to catch her and reunite her with her sisters. Birds of a feather do so like to flock together.

On 'taking a wife'

The English language, like probably most languages, is a slippery thing. Words don't always mean what you think they mean.

Take, for example, the notion of one person 'taking' another as their spouse. Do you, A, take B to be your lawfully wedded wife? seems to have a gentle, perhaps romantic air about it. It's common, and usual, and probably has connotations of an accepted proposal which asked Will you marry me?

Which is why it was only today, while reading about cultures where women and men speak different languages, I realised that taking wives in historical accounts is in no way gentle. It's a man's word for rape and slavery:

…groups of Carib warriors conquered them, killed most of the men, and took the women as wives. …

…he ordered his crew to kill all the men on the island. … many of his crew stayed behind to make wives of the remaining women.

Source: Cultures Where Men and Women Don't Speak the Same Language.

This is that other meaning of 'take': using force to remove. Here it means slavery. I have no doubt that no-one approached any of the women with some kind of 'proposal' to which they agreed. No, these women were forcibly removed and then obliged to perform sexual acts with their enslavers.

So why do writers use the innocent-sounding term take as a wife?

Next time I read historical accounts of men taking women as their wives, I'll pause and ponder what was really going on: rape and slavery.

LOL: D.E.B.S. (2004 film) was amusing. Shades of Charlie’s Angels, Buffy, Desert Hearts. The big award for graduation was a ‘Mary Jane’. The big bad was gorgeous Lucy Diamond, whose car had the number plate: NDASKY. A fun way to spend 90 minutes.

Still from the movie D.E.B.S.

I watched and enjoyed the movie 28 Days. It’s from 2000 and lead Sandra Bullock looks a whole lot younger.

When Gwen crashes a car while drunk she’s sentenced to 28 days rehab.

Still from 28 Days showing lead actor Sandra Bullock spraying cleaner from a bottle.